Seriously, I’m still choking back the tears after watching the end of this episode of ‘What Would You Do?”. I literally was just having this conversation with a girlfriend of mine the other day about interracial couples. I personally have nothing against it, but the conversation always comes up.
“What is it she has that we don’t?”
“You mean to tell me, out of all these good black women out here, he could not find one?!?”
The lady on this video summed it up for me… You can’t heal by inflecting pain. No matter what the scenario — relationships, careers, finances — saying hurting feelings about someone else is not going to help you get to a better place in life. If you personally don’t know why you haven’t been able to find a “good man”, then it should be a self-reflective check that happens because they are out there (even if they are hard to find!)
My rant for the day! 🙂